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I am WAY behind this year.
I don’t know why I always wait until the last minute….
To finish my shopping.
I have vowed to purchase one gift a month for each of my kids- beginning in January.
Then next year, they’ll be guaranteed to get 12 gifts from their parents! Ha ha ha
Starting at 12 days ‘til Christmas-
My kids (well Lilly) insisted on singing the “12 Days of Christmas” each day.
And each day she sings one less day: now we are on 9 days.
So for today, this is MY version:
One the 9th day of Christmas, my true love gave to me:
9 rooms needing cleaning
8 days of gift buying
7 loads of laundry
6 people to cook dinner for
5 gray hairs to dye
4 days ‘til family comes
3 toilet bowls to scrub
2 more days of school.
And really sick little girl.
(who still has a fever and a terrible cough)

So…. I am off to clean, clean, clean and keep Lilly bean happy until we see the doctor AGAIN this afternoon.
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This past Saturday was Grandpa Kofoed’s birthday. It’s been nearly two years since he passed away… and while we miss him, we are keeping his memory alive by telling his funny jokes and some of his wonderful old stories, including some from his time in the Army at Fort Sam Houston, right here in
In honor of Grandpa Kofoed, we fixed a big ol’ breakfast and remembered the kids' kind, funny, wonderful grandpa! I know that he would have LOVED his little granddaughter- the chef, helping him in the kitchen!









































Aren't the fishkins SO cute?!?

















Yesterday morning Chris went upstairs to wake Damian up. When he did, Damian woke up crying and screaming at Chris… “No, I am not supposed to be here, I was dreaming and Nana was with me. Why did you wake me up?”
He was devastated. He wanted to back to that brief moment of time when he and his Nana were together again.
After he explained his dream to me, he asked me if I thought there was any way that she really visited him last night… I told him that I absolutely thought his Nana was with him, there was no other explanation for it.
Damian explained that he and Nana were on the beach; surrounded by tall trees- a lush forest, huge rocks on which the waves crashed, the sun was setting and the sky looked like one of her water color paintings, it was private- no one else around. (To me, Damian is describing one of mom’s favorite places,
He said that she was so beautiful. She was wearing a lovely pink blouse with little red flowers on it. She had her arm again and both of her wrists had many beautiful bracelets on them, including a yellow LiveStrong bracelet.
As they walked along the beach, holding hands, the two of them had a wonderful conversation (most of which I am choosing not share). She told him that she is so proud of him; she told him that no matter what happens in his life, he needs to remember that he always has his family to count on and she told him to make sure that he always finds happiness in life.
“Mom, do you think she’ll visit me again?”
“I am sure she will honey, but please don’t expect it to be tonight or tomorrow or next month, maybe even not this year. It took Nana a long time to come to you in a dream, it may be a while before she can do it again.”
Of all the members of our family, it is so fitting that Nana chose to visit Damian. She and him were best buddies and shared the most precious of relationships. On the morning that she passed, I was not going to wake the kids- my dad, brother, Chris and I were surrounding her, touching her and softly speaking to her, encouraging her while her time in her present life came to an end. As the sun began to rise, I turned to the doorway of her room to find my sweetest little boy standing there. Damian, without an ounce of fear, came to the bed and held his Nana’s only hand as she left this world for the next.
I have wished every single day since her passing that I would have a dream like that… I never have. I must admit that I am jealous and sad and happy all at the same time but most of all, I am so grateful that my mom was able to let us know that she is okay, that she is happy and that she is always here with us and I am honored that she came to visit her special grandson in his dreams.
It has been a crazy few weeks around here! Thank goodness we are use to the craziness and are handling each bump in the road!
Cody had a set-back over the weekend with extreme dizziness, nausea, vomiting and a terrible headache. It was a little scary! We talked with the doctor and did a combination of things- we took him off his pain medication (poor baby) and had him lie flat on his back for about 36 hours. We are not sure if it was a reaction to the pain medication or leakage of spinal fluid from his epidural site but something helped! Yesterday he had such a great day that he was walking up and down the stairs, bending his knee to a 90 degree angle… he even played Wii Sports! I am so proud of him- he is doing amazing!
Lilliana has a crazy, freaky thing going on right now. She started with a bad earache on Sunday and it has only gotten worse each day. She saw her pediatrician yesterday… her ear drum looked okay, not great-but not terrible- her ear canal was red but none of that concerned her. What really bothered her was that she could not touch Lilly’s ear without her crying in pain. It turns out that she thinks that Lilly has a bone infection in a bone called the mastoid, the little bone directly behind your ear. The infection is called acute mastoiditis and it is a serious infection with very serious complications (including necrosis of the bone, deafness and meningitis). Most of the time, this infection requires a hospital stay with IV antibiotics. We are trying a course of high dose antibiotics and are hoping that it will knock down the infection so we can stay away from the hospital. We’re keeping our fingers crossed for her! Thankfully she also seems to be doing a little better this afternoon!
Thank goodness Damian is doing AWESOME! He is healthy and happy and enjoying school! I am going to share a wonderful story about him in my next entry!

































Seriously, the wind was blowing so hard that the kids couldn't stand up straight and it was FREEZING!





























Honestly, it drives me a little nuts when I read postings where one post after another, after another is complaining about "stuff!" Come on people, is life really that bad? :o) ha ha ha


Ben & Chris (in their bunny suits) working on their next instrument, JADE, for the JUNO spacecraft mission to Jupiter




We then headed up to the Jemez where we stopped near the Gilman Tunnels. Gavin fished for a bit and the rest of us enjoyed the view!
Then it was off to Los Alamos for a graduation party! Maneesha was one of the little girls that my mom took care of. She has always had a very special place in our hearts and it meant SO much to help celebrate her special day with her! We were so happy to also visit with Anna! She was another of my mom's special kiddos! It was great catching up with both of them and I hope that we will always be able to do so! I know my mom would have been so proud of "her" kids.
































